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Mementos

I always try to keep some of the things I need and collect when traveling.  Like train tickets, a timetable, a matchbook, CD of the local music and so on.  They are small, but evocative prompts that help me to recall where I’ve been.

“I have more memories than if I were a thousand years old.”                                                     Charles Baudelaire

Starkly different from the things I shop for, these are smaller mementos that remind me of very specific experiences I’ve enjoyed while on a trip…a hotel, a train ride, a restaurant, a place I enjoyed visiting, local music, a show, and so on.

Small mementos prompt sweet memories!

Small mementos prompt sweet memories!

Even better, these mementos can be brought together in a collage.  Or an online “scrap book” of photos.  I sometimes assemble these little cards and tickets in a large decorative envelope with the name of the place they’re from and dates of the trip.  It’s so much fun to “re-discover” these souvenirs when I want to recall the feelings of a trip I made on my own.

Small reminders can evoke Big Memories

Small reminders can evoke Big Memories

These maps, cards, tickets and such are so helpful when you’ve been out and about on your own.  Traveling with a spouse, friends or family provides an opportunity to create a collective memory.  But when you’re traveling on your own, it’s important to collect these little reminders that will help jog your memory back to a place you enjoyed.  Hotels, cafes and restaurants too frequently have a card or photo available to take along with you.  Don’t hesitate to take one and add these to your collections.

Be sure to take these with you after a meal or a stay!

Be sure to take these with you after a meal or a stay!

 They will be your “companion pieces” when you want to recall a wonderful trip you made with “A Table For One”.

Copyright 2015 Marion O’Grady

An Invitation

I think that the more elegant the ways that a restaurant displays its desire to have you dine with them, the more you should consider trying it out.

Elegant and Inviting

Elegant and Inviting

“Give me the luxuries of life and I will willingly do without the necessities.”                           Frank Lloyd Wright

There are several reasons behind this.  First, the establishment wants you to notice them for all the right reasons.  They’re making it easy to preview their menu and prices.  You can be sure that, if they’ve giving this much attention to their outside display, (the invitation), that they’re also going to pay very close attention to what’s inside the dining room and the kitchen!  And, most importantly, to you their guest!

They’re also demonstrating that they’re not afraid to set up a higher level of expectation for excellent serve and attention to detail.  It would be safe to assume that they won’t hesitate to charm when you ask for “A Table For One”.

Copyright 2015 Marion O’Grady

Go For Lunch

If you’re just starting out on your “A Table For One” adventures, I would suggest lunch as another alternative for a first “fine dining alone” experience.  Lunch can be a less intimidating meal to enjoy on your own.  It can be delightful and casual too.

“A well spent day brings happy sleep.”  Leonardo da Vinci

Small Cafe

Small Cafe

For your first choice, you might want to opt for a small cafe or restaurant.  You’re likely to get good service and the meal will be no doubt be delicious.  In addition, even if it’s crowded, it will feel intimate and you’re less likely to feel like you’re “on stage” dining alone.  I think lunch is a great way to begin your “Dining Solo” adventures!

Copyright 2015 Marion O’Grady